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Everyone Should Read This!

2010-02-10T17:58:00.001Z

Hi everyone here is something that everyone should read, I saw it in the English newspaper The Guardian and then again online.

Of course always remember that www.easilyfriends.com is free we will never ever ask you for any money and neither will anyone else here at www.easilyfriends.com and so if someone does ask for money ignore them, block them and report them.

We want your experience on www.easilyfriends.com to be fun, safe and above all have a happy ending.

Here is what was in The Guardian and if you want to you can read it here for yourselves.

www.guardian.co.uk

Scam watch: Online dating fraudsters are only after one thing ...

OFT warns against scammers who build fictitious profiles on dating websites and befriend other users before asking for cash

Con artists on dating websites may ask for money to cover urgent medical treatment for a family member

Romantics should be on their guard against internet dating scams that can not only rip you off financially but also break your heart.

The latest scam alert from the Office of Fair Trading warns that the increased potential to meet people online is being used by criminals to con people out of their money.

"Romance fraudsters" target singles columns and dating websites to search for victims. They create fictitious online profiles and send out unsolicited emails or letters, often with fake photographs, using the trust they build up to persuade their victims to part with large sums of money in frauds that can go on for years.

These typically involve the scamster telling their victim they want to meet them but are stranded without the money to travel or cover visa costs. They may also say that they or a family member require urgent treatment for an illness.

The OFT says in one recent case a British national was kidnapped after travelling to west Africa expecting to be met by someone with whom they had established an online friendship. The individual had no idea that the online 'friend' was the fictional creation of a criminal group. The victim was assaulted, imprisoned for four days, and was released only when a ransom was paid.

"All fraud is destructive but dating scammers are particularly ruthless as they abuse the emotional trust and attachments that people invest when looking to meet someone," says Heather Clayton, senior director of the OFT's consumer group. The OFT says dating site users should take the following steps to avoid becoming victims:

• Know what you are paying for and what the dating agency promises to provide in return.

• If you receive any requests for money, be suspicious, even if you have known the person for a number of weeks.

• Be sceptical and ask yourself simple questions, for example, "Why am I the only person who can help them, when I have just met them?"

• If you meet somebody unknown to you, always meet in a public place and take a friend with you for support if you are unsure.

The Serious Organised Crime Agency (Soca) adds that if you do decide to travel to meet an online friend, particularly if you go abroad, tell someone trustworthy where you are going, plan regular contacts and agree what they should do if you miss a contact.

Relationships That Last

2010-01-15T09:14:00.001Z

You don't have to spend your days on holiday, the lap of luxury or indeed have any of the trappings of the rich to have a relationship that will last forever.

Money, fine things, the mortgage paid off etc., help as does a good job and a secure future, but to be absolutely honest you don't need money to love someone, in fact that practice I believe is called the "oldest profession in the world."

Which is why it is a shame that so many people these days seem to think that the only way to happiness in any form is through riches, it isn't. If you talk to couples who have been together for a long time they will, if you know them well enough talk about the times when they didn't have two pennies to rub together and of course laugh about it.

If you worry more about the fact that your next partner might not have two pennies to rub together than whether he or she is kind, caring and loving, then your next relationship and the ones that follow will be a chain of disasters.

Try to think beyond the flat screen TV, a car that is less than two years old and all of the other rubbish that is so short term, if you want a relationship that lasts and will last forever then you have to think about things that won't wear out like love, kindliness, caring and to be honest the things that make a relationship last.

So even if you are poor by others crazy standards you can walk off into the sunset together but it might not be a Caribbean one, but if you are both happy walking off into a Caribbean sunset would just be the icing on the Diamond Anniversary Cake wouldn't it.

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Smile In The Snow

2010-01-12T13:04:00.001Z

Ok Ladies and Gentlemen the weather is bad everywhere and I thought that maybe as we are all stuck somewhere and possibly getting a bit down it might be time to have some fun.

Here are ten things that you shouldn't say on a date, and indeed most of which you should never say to anyone ever.

I hope that the snow disappears and we get back to normal soon, stay safe out there.

You look good, is that one of those wonderbras?

I can't say I know this restaurant, I have never been here before but I saw that they had a "two for the price of one deal this month."

Do you have that feeling that they are watching you?

Oh! I am a very spiritual person, in fact I have a native Indian Spirit Guide!

No I won't thanks, my doctors say I shouldn't drink while I am on these drugs!

Well I didn't mean to show everything because when I had dropped my trousers that scared the Jehovah's Witnesses enough but when my underwear hit the ground, well I have never see anyone run that fast.

You can trust me!

I really liked your brother and the rest of your family, are you adopted?

Call me, your will call me won't you, you won't forget to call will you?

It is nice to get out of the house and of course to talk to someone, although I never seem to have anything much to say.

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Are You Single?

2010-01-08T12:03:00.001Z

Are you single and have been for a while now? If so it is entirely possible that you have started to wonder if you will every get a partner and form a long lasting relationship and when that happens you start to think that maybe dating is not the answer and should you even bother?

Well take heart and think about this for a moment. If there was some sort of supreme being and he or more likely she made all of the decisions and with the benefit of his or her amazing intelligence pair us all up based on how well we would get on, what colour our eyes were, what we liked and so on would that work or would he or she make mistakes, some of the cleverest things in the world like say for instance computers make mistakes just take the Lotto computer it must make mistakes because it has never chosen me.

Without dating and happily dating websites such as www.easilyfriends.com we wouldn't have the fun of finding the person we rather like the look of, chatting to them, going on a date and slowly over a period of time discovering that we really like this person, surely dating is much better than being paired off just because we appear to be compatible.

Isn't it a good job that we are human because sometimes the people we end up with are nothing like the stereotypes that computers suggest, which of course is why dating sites like www.easilyfriends.com are so much better than dating agencies who favour computer dating, computers should only date themselves shouldn't they?

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Good News For Everyone Looking For A New Partner From www.easilyfriends.com

2010-01-06T14:10:00.001Z

I have been talking to the good people at www.easilyfriends.com and they have just told me that they have seen a massive increase in the numbers of people registering, free of course, to their service.

Now the reason that is good news is that the more people men and women on a dating website the better and so I strongly suggest that you visit the site and get dating, it is the only way to find a partner and of course it won't ever cost you a penny, now or at anytime in the future and that is because www.easilyfriends.com is a site that is and always will be free.

Between you and me I don't think that they would mind if you clicked on an ad here or there while you are doing what you came for but they exist to find you a date, enter a relationship and most of all be happy, what a nice bunch of people they are!

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2010 A New Beginning!

2010-01-05T15:49:00.001Z

Whether you are in a relationship or looking for one, I suggest that you make 2010 a new beginning and that is because there is nothing more exciting for couples than to do different things and surprise each other, with flowers, treats and of course in the bedroom.

If you aren't in a relationship and sadly I know that a lot of my readers both men and women have yet to find that special partner who is out there waiting to complete their life, it is time to look at yourself.

Think about the people you meet, on dates, casually and in general, try and analyse what you like about them and then compare that to your 'ideal' person.

We all have 'idea' people and of course because they are imaginary we endow them with all sorts of attributes and talents, but sometimes we might be guilty of imagining that our perfect partner who we have carefully constructed exists, they don't, they never have and frankly they never will.

We all have deficiencies, are capable of annoying ourselves with our little ways let alone our partners so no one can be perfect can they.

So think about what you liked in the people you have met recently and try to create a 'perfect' partner who is a little more realistic and you never know you may actually have met him or her already, you just didn't know it yet.

Write to me with your thoughts you can find me here most days www.easilyfriends.com.

Let's make 2010 a new beginning for everyone and then we'll all be happier at the end of the year!

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New Year's Resolutions

2010-01-02T10:27:00.001Z

Hello all I only made two new Year's resolutions this year and they are to help everyone I can to find a partner and to answer more of your questions about relationships.

In both of these endeavours I am going to need your help, the first resolution to find you a partner will require your help and the second requires your questions, so let's get started and make 2010 the "Year of the Successful Relationship."

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A New Relationship For 2010

2009-12-23T11:16:00.001Z

First I would like to say that I hope that you are not going to be alone this Holiday Season, there is not much worse than tat, and I promise you I know, I have been there and although it was a long while ago now I still remember the loneliness, the talking to yourself and the wondering whether you should bother to cook for one.

Honestly I promise that together you and I ad of course www.easilyfriends.com will do something positive about you being alone soon, that is of course if you have joined up to www.easilyfriends.com it is free and easy to use and will never charge you anything.

It is the fact that www.easilyfriends.com is free that I like it they want to help you and not help themselves to your hard earned cash.

So we are nearly into another year and after the fireworks have faded and the parties finished you will have a whole new year to focus on and we are going to find you a partner and turn your friendship into a relationship.

A lot of people have recently written to me asking the where I think the best place to meet a new friend would be and I have to say now after all of the information that has been passed to me from the people at www.easilyfriends.com I have to say that the internet is probably taking over as the place to meet people of both genders.

Obviously you have to be careful who you talk to but meeting someone on the internet is like meeting someone on a train or in a bar, what do you really know about them? Not much is the answer. Ok you'll say at least in a bar or on a train you will be able to see the person you are talking to but have you heard of skype and webcams yet?

Webcams are very handy and you can use them to have a face to face conversation with anyone anywhere and of course skype is like www.easilyfriends.com free to use which is great.

So I would like to suggest that if you are at a loose end this Christmas and New Year that you get yourself online, treat yourself to a webcam and a free copy of skype and get chatting to people.

And of course unless the person is in an internet café then you will be able to get to know more about him or her just by listening to the surrounding noise if there are children ask if they belong to the person you are talking to, if there is anything sinister or odd about the room the person is talking to you from then they might be the same and you will get to know much sooner than if you met this person in the street, in a bar or on a train.

Use technology to get a date and when you are on the date use the same safeguards you always use a lot of people are doing that these days.

Happy Christmas to all my readers.

Abigail

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www.easilyfriends.com Survey Snippets

2009-12-18T13:16:00.001Z

I promised my readers before the end of the year I would give them a few more snippets from our recent survey and here are some interesting little 'factletes' about what men and women think on a range of things from commitment to who says those fateful words "I love you" first.

63% of women say that the a man says 'I love you' first.

11% of all men believe that finding a life partner is important.

6% of all women are looking seriously looking for a life partner.

40% of all women consider that a man's education is more important than whether he is handsome or not.

34% of all women believe that a deposit on a home is a more significant sign of commitment than an engagement ring.

29% of all women spend more time shopping than they do looking for life partner.

As a rule people either men or women go on 100 dates before they marry.

8 out of 10 singles believe that the first kiss is a very good indication what their rest of any relationship will be like.

Everyone here at www.easilyfriends.com would like to wish all of you a Merry Happy Christmas and a Very Happy New Year!

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Tuesday Is Research Day

2009-12-15T15:57:00.001Z

Actually that is probably the wrong headline for today's article because I was going to start this article by saying that I thought I would give you a day off from percentages and suggestions and I mean, to I promise!

On a Tuesday I usually spend some time looking at dating sites, dating blogs and indeed all things dating, to see what my competition is doing and I have to say that I think that most of them have missed the fact that this is the season of goodwill to all, including 'men.'

What is wrong with my fellow female dating 'experts?' Why do they seem to hate men so much? Really the number of dating blogs with the word 'bastard' in is just frankly astonishing and to make matters worse the word that follows 'bastard' is men!

Come on ladies please give men a break, unless you are considering either living as a celibate or as a lesbian, we sort of need men, and if you don't, then the rest of us do and that means that we have to stop putting men down and worse calling them names. Please try to remember we are grown women and not in the second or third grade.

Men are not all bad you know! If you have had a bad one then I am sorry for you, but you are/were unlucky because for every bad man you have known there is a bad woman as well.

Which leads me to the real point of this blog. Try to remember why we seek the company of a partner, we do it because it makes us feel better basically, no other reason. If someone is not very nice they will demonstrate that side of their character and you should get rid of him or of course her. But never give up hope there is someone out there for you, you just haven't found them yet.

And remember that labelling all men or indeed women as bitches or bastards does no one any good, all men and women aren't bitches or bastards, they are simply your potential partners.

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When We Here At www.easilyfriends.com Say That We Know Web Dating We Mean It

2009-12-14T13:05:00.001Z

For most of this year the good people at www.easilyfriends.com have been looking very closely at the way in which their members have been using their web site and dating trends in general together with the way that people use www.easilyfriends.com and the internet in general to find friends and partners.

Now the people at www.easilyfriends.com have started to use that information to improve their already excellent web site and offer some of the non-confidential research to members and of course readers of my blog.

My last blog covered the interesting fact that a large number of people around 50% log on to web sites such as www.easilyfriends.com specifically to find love, an encouraging fact if you are looking for someone to love yourself and probably the best reason to join www.easilyfriends.com which of course unlike other web sites doesn't ask you to pay for the privilege.

As part of our research we looked at the demographic of our website and discovered that although just over 50% of our members are men 53% to be precise the number of female members has significantly increased during 2009 and the trend continues.

This of course means that as we enter 2010 and the increase in the number of woman joining www.easilyfriends.com rises they may well soon out number men and that will I am pretty confident make using www.easilyfriends.com a lot nicer for women and men alike.

All of which means whether you are male or female you are going to really enjoy visiting www.easilyfriends.com even more especially because they are the best free web dating service and that means that you don't have to be alone.

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Log On For Love

2009-12-10T13:30:00.001Z

Recent studies in America have shown that the way society works is changing and nearly 50% of all people who use the internet for dating log on to find love!

That of course is no surprise really, every decade or so the way that we human beings do things changes and the last two decades have probably been the ones where there have been the most significant changes in the way society works especially when you look at the way we today go about looking for someone to love.

Of course the fact that nearly 50% of all people who use the internet for dating log on to find love, using online dating sites such as www.easilyfriends.com is really good news and not just for dating sites like www.easilyfriends.com.

The good news is that with so many people logging on to the internet to find love then it is easier for everyone to do the same, assuming that you are using a safe, reputable and of course free dating website such as www.easilyfriends.com.

If you want to find love then there are an enormous number of benefits that come from using the internet. You can get to know the person you are interested in rather well before you actually meet them. When you write to each other or use instant messaging it is surprising just how much you get to hear about the person you are writing to. There is less to worry about when you are not face to face and so you can build quite a rapport before that crucial first date.

When you communicate with each other on a dating site like www.easilyfriends.com no matter for how long, you begin to build a little 'history' that is just 'yours' and that is something that you have in common just between the two of you and with no one else.

So if you are looking for love, then it is true to say that there are few better places to look than on line at specialist dating sites such as www.easilyfriends.com.

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Dating Tips

2009-12-09T08:51:00.001Z

In all honesty I do tend, as you know, to shy away from specific offering dating tips, and that is because we are all different and what would for me might not work for you, so i try just to offer advice which you dear reader can interpret and use in a way that suits you and your personality best.

But I was asked the same question recently by a number of people recently and so I thought I would share my answer with you all.

The question was simple but it would seem the subject bothers a lot of people on a date for the first or second time, and that questions is "how do you keep the conversation going?"

Talking to someone who you don't know very well is difficult for some people and so the best way to overcome any awkward silence is to have a few topics or indeed questions of your own stored away in your memory.

I am not suggesting that you begin an interrogation and I am not suggesting that all silences are awkward, remember a peaceful moment in a date is something you remember, they often tend to lead to kissing.

So the sort of questions to ask are ones that have pretty obvious answers. What would you do with a million pounds? Is a good one and will let you know a little more about the person you are talking to.

Holidays are great topics of conversation, tell the person you are on a date with where you went last, where you would like to go next and you will find that all sorts of conversational directions flow from a simple sentence.

If you use general subjects you will be amazed just how much the conversation will flow. Just try to relax and if you can't remember any of the questions you thought about, sincere compliments always break the ice I have found.

At the end of the evening if you have anything in common you will have discovered some of it by chatting, and asking questions and that way you will both know if there is going to be a follow up date.

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More About Me - Well You Actually!

2009-12-08T08:50:00.001Z

Before you start dating seriously it is worth having a think about who you are, what you like to do, what your ambitions are and where you would like to be in say five years time.

If you do this then you will have a really good idea of who you are, because not many of us know exactly who we are. If you sit down now with paper and a pen and list ten things about you and what you want I expect like most people you would get stuck at number five or six.

There is a reason for getting stuck at number five or six and that is simply that we don't really know ourselves very well, what it is that we want and indeed where we want to go, and if we don't know those key elements of our lives how on earth are we going to be happy with a stranger who is trying to get to know us?

We are not are we?

At least we have a head start on the poor unfortunate person trying to get to know us, we have had the whole of our lives so far to get to know ourselves.

So the time you take to really understand yourself, what you want, who you are and so on is a very important few minutes in our lives.

The questions that you should ask yourself to discover who you are, are not unlike the ones an employer would ask oddly enough when you think about it and so if you do this little exercise you will also have the answers to what might occasionally be some difficult to answer questions at a job interview.

When you have these answers you will know a little more about yourself and the direction that you should be heading in, and then you will be able first to talk or write freely about who you are and what you want and of course you will have a much better idea about the type of partner you should be looking for, and don't let anyone confuse you we all have our 'types' people who will make the perfect partner or as close to perfection as us humans can get.

You may also enjoy the journey that bring you to self awareness and self understanding, it is an interesting one because of course it is all about you.

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As Recommended By The Daily Telegraph

2009-12-07T15:03:00.001Z

"More people than ever will use dating websites this winter to find their perfect partner." According to the Daily Telegraph and so it has never been a better time to use www.easilyfriends.com.

This is really good news for all dating sites and the members who are there already. So what are you waiting for let's prove the Daily Telegraph right and join now.

But remember not all dating websites are first of all free unlike www.easilyfriends.com and then secondly some website actually sell your information to other dating sites, especially ones that have just started so read the small print before you join, unless the dating site you are considering joining says in block capitals WE WILL NEVER SELL YOUR MEMBERSHIP DETAILS EVER as those nice people at www.easilyfriends.com do.

Have fun and be safe this Christmas and remember because of sites just like www.easilyfriends.com. you don't have to be alone at Christmas or indeed the New Year.

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A Great Place To Date

2009-12-05T11:00:00.001Z

I heard to my horror the other day that couples on a first date are going to Karaoke Bars! No wonder so many people complain that they don't get a second date!

If you are serious about dating and let's face it who isn't then a Karaoke Bar as a venue for a first date is frankly mad.

A first date is supposed to be a time when you begin to get to know the person you rather like and has asked you or you have asked them out on a date.

Candlelit dinners are maybe a bit passé but at least you can hear yourselves talk in a Karaoke Bar all you will hear is several different versions of Elvis songs being strangled by people who probably can't tell you Elvis's surname.

So if a candlelit dinner in a nice restaurant is not your cup of Cappuccino then there are other places diners are nice and you can usually has a pleasant enough evening in one with a nice walk through the city. But believe it or not one of the best places to have a chat and an enjoyable time in my book at the moment is bowling and that is because you get to do a little exercise and in between actually bowling you can have little chats.

Little chats are handy because you tend never to run out of things to say and in between them you have plenty of time to think of what you will say next.

Then after the game you can have a snack and a drink in the bar without Karaoke happily. You should try it and let me know if it works for you, you never know you might even see me bowling I actually go once a week and love it.

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Just A Quick Tip

2009-12-04T17:53:00.001Z

If you are using a dating website such as the www.easilyfriends.com, then it is a really good idea to spruce up and spring clean your profile.

The people at the www.easilyfriends.com have discovered, in some research they have been doing recently, that if you want to improve your chances of finding a partner on their site all you have to do is just add a new photograph and that will increase your chance of being contacted by 62%.

So if you have a moment then you can spend it wisely, if that is, you are looking for a new partner.

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Saying Goodnight On A First Date!

2009-12-03T10:27:00.001Z

Are there any rules for saying goodnight on a first date? Well honestly there aren't and don't let any silly website scribbler tell you any different, you have to use your commonsense and trust your instinct.

In addition if you use the guideline that sex on a first date is a merely a one night stand and not usually the beginning of something more serious then you will be set up for any date.

Always remember though that sex on a first date can be rather enjoyable for both men and women and there is nothing wrong with it, obviously you must use protection but that is there is no reason why if that is what you want that you don't enjoy yourself.

So that answers the question of whether to have sex on a first date, however if you think that 'this' first date might be something more than just a one night stand I would tend to be patient.

When do you say good night on a first date? Well you can say good night and walk away from a date at any time especially if things aren't going well and you don't want to prolong the agony and you can, of course, do this at any time during the date, you don't need an excuse good night is enough.

Happily the two little words 'good night' are pretty final and don't have much of come back.

Really there are lots of other ways to say good night, but whether the date went well or not 'good night' is really the best way to say that you want to head home.

You can add that your date can walk you to your car or public transport because unless you want to invite them home for 'coffee' then you have set a point at which the date will definitely end.

When you go on dates do always ensure you 'datesafe,' make sure that if this is a first date someone you know is aware of where you are going and what time to expect you home.

There aren't many homicidal maniacs out there contrary to what it sometimes seems like on the TV news, but and it is the biggest but in the world, you don't want to take 'that' chance ever do you?

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Flowers On A First Date?

2009-12-02T09:35:00.001Z

The idea of giving a woman flowers on a first date is actually very sweet and although they could be a massive inconvenience through-out the whole date with both of you having to carry them, remember them and find somewhere to put them when you are on your date, that will all be forgotten in time if the relationship grows into something more than a first date.

However although the flowers from a first date would be a nice memory to have, giving flowers on a first date is a little forward don't you think? Flowers are a very personal gift and should be reserved for something special.

So on balance I think that you should concentrate on making the first date special and then if there are more dates you can think about giving your date flowers.

Lastly never ever buy flowers from a vendor with a bucket of Roses, you know the ones who visit restaurants and nightclubs with greasy hair and a matching smile.

These Roses are often on their last legs and worse they are usually wet and the water from them always stains.

But more importantly there is something dreadfully tacky about that sort of Rose seller which makes my blood run a little cooler; they are creepy and should be discouraged at all costs because they are almost certainly friends with the creeps who come around nightclubs with small animals to con you into having a picture taken with your date and a Chimp? Why I ask would you want to remember your date by having a picture of you and a tired Chimp?

And if you did wouldn't you then have to consider inviting the Chimp and plus one to the wedding? No of course you wouldn't so why would you want your picture taken with them ever?

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The Nonsense Written On Dating Advice Sites And Blogs

2009-12-01T11:19:00.001Z

Every so often I trawl the web to see what my fellow dating advisers are talking about. It is not the most pleasurable experience because in the main they talk such a load on nonsense.

Every so often I would like to bring you a little of that nonsense and give you the advice that should have been given in the first place.

Here is the first then in a very occasional series and it is only occasional because I don't like trawling the web for this rubbish and not because here isn't vast amounts of it out there.

I promise you I saw this on a website who will remain nameless, it is their advice to women about men with smelly shoes!

"If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace, dump him."

Ok here is what I would say on the subject if asked! First of all we all have smelly shoes, have you stuck your nose in your trainers recently? Even Prada trainers get a little how can I put this 'aromatic.' So don't forget that will you please none of us are superior to the others!

Then remember that if you can smell someone's feet so can they and they may well be embarrassed about it, this is where in normal conversation you can suggest ways to improve matters and even go shopping for insoles, hygiene products and even socks and shoes that can help.

It is possible that this is the help that the poor soul with the foot odour problem has been waiting for and of course it is good to share our problems - a problems shared is a problem halved as they say!

Even if you don't know someone very well but you like them it isn't rude to say darling we have to do something about 'those.' If you are sincere then it

Because a man or indeed a woman has smelly feet is not really a reason to dump anyone. If you know someone well enough they have probably mentioned why they prefer not to take their shoes off or that their feet do get a little rich, then all you do is suggest insoles that can help kill the bacteria that cause this problem and maybe when you have a bath together wash each other's feet - it is quite sexy especially if you massage oils into them afterwards.

If you like someone a lot then just because they have smelly feet, bad breath or worse is not a reason to "dump them" as my friends on the other site suggested and that is because if you are intent on having a relationship whether it is with the person with smelly feet or not, you are both jolly well going to have to work at it and not bail at the first hint of turbulence.

Really if we were all perfect we could be more choosy but we are humans and the last thing that humans ever are are perfect!

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One-To-One Advice

2009-11-30T13:06:00.001Z

Giving one-to-one advice or mentioning advice that I might have given someone is something I rarely do in my blog because I want my blog to be general and that way enable as many people as possible to benefit from what I publish here.

However this morning I was minding my own business sightseeing on a big red London bus, I am in London for a few days it is nice, but it is so crowded and London is one of the dirtiest, most polluted places I have ever visited oh and the standard of service is pretty poor too, frankly I wouldn't recommend London as a place to visit.

Still I didn't come here to moan, I came here to tell you about something that happened this morning on the aforementioned bus which was both flattering and in a way rather sad.

A young man got on the bus at Oxford Street close to a Pedestrian Crossing that seems to be designed to give buses and taxis more than one chance to people crossing Oxford Street, it looked very dangerous indeed. The young man was in his mid twenties I guess and as he passed by me he smiled!

That was nice I thought to myself especially as I was feeling as though I was in the middle of a city where no one smiles ever, a cue that I presume comes from the politicians of the land who all seem to be talking seriously and never smile.

After a while, we had just been whisked rather rapidly around Trafalgar Square I recall, gee buses travel fast in London, the young man approached me and asked me if my name was Abigail and I nodded, he asked if he could sit next to be and then began to tell me about his girlfriend.

I was so disturbed to hear his story that I ended up getting off the bus in a place called Brixton, mmh! is all I will say about that place, I thought the middle of London was dirty until I tried to walk through the trash lined Brixton High Street.

Obviously I can't mention specifics but the young man said that he and his girlfriend had been living together for a number of years and recently within the last six to eight months and for no apparent reason she had been going out and staying out sometimes over night.

The young man said that he loved his girlfriend and had tried to have one of those chats that we all attempt, the "what is wrong! Is it me!" type of conversation, but his girlfriend had erupted saying that he was ruining her life and all she wanted was freedom and he didn't give her any.

Well I told him what I thought I would do in that situation, which is give her all of the freedom she is demanding and move out immediately, I don't know if he will but it would be best.

Please everyone remember that relationships are about sharing, they are not meant to be one sided and no partner is supposed to take advantage of the other, if they do they probably always will and the best thing to do in those circumstances is to leave and find someone who wants to be with you and wants to share a life with you, you deserve to be happy as well as your partner no matter whether you are a man or a woman.

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Something To Think About

2009-11-30T12:29:00.001Z

In a world that recently has shown itself to be a place full of corruption, greed and stupidity it is important to remember that if you want to build a stable long term relationship with a partner you should do the opposite of American, Arab and European bankers and businessmen and be generous and honest.

Just look where greed, stupidity and corruption have got them? Nowhere yet like the children from a bad marriage it is us the poor people in the street that suffer because we bear the cost for the actions of the greedy idiots.

So it you want to have a relationship that lasts first try to be generous and kind yourself and then find someone who thinks the same. Both of you may not ever be the richest people in the world but you will be among a very select few who are the happiest.

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Safer Dating

2009-11-28T18:41:00.001Z

These days it is sad to say that there are a lot of oddballs about and quite frankly that makes dating whether you are a, girl meeting a girl, a girl meeting a boy or indeed a boy meeting a boy something of a risk.

Happily there are a number of things that you can do to ensure that the date you are going to have is a safe one, even if it turns out to be less than an enjoyable one.

The first thing to do is a bit of homework especially if the date you are going to have is really a blind one and no one you know has introduced you to the person you are going to meet.

The sort of homework to do is to use Google to search for the person name, then check out FB and MySpace to see if the person is online and if they are you can get a good sneak peek.

If the date comes through someone you know from your family, mates or friends work then ask questions and get the information that you need that way. Remember it really isn't bad to ask these questions these days, so don't feel like it is.

When you go on the date you can either double up with friends or go somewhere very public and of course don't travel too far to the date.

As a courtesy make sure that you have your date's phone number so that you can call if it looks as though you are going to be held up. You must know what it is like if you are standing somewhere waiting for a date to arrive and they don't.

You feel like a complete tool and after a while you begin to start to wonder how long you should wait before you give up and you wait a little longer getting ever more uncomfortable, so don't let that happen it isn't fair to your date and of course will spoil the evening.

To make sure that you are safe on your date tell someone where you are going and what time you will be back and make sure that you have sufficient cash on you for any emergency.

When you are on the date, turn your phone to vibrate and try not to use it or send texts, you are there to find out more about the person you are meeting so do just that, chat about what you like to do and of course listen to what the other person has to say as well.

Remember that if you feel a little nervous then it is likely that your date does and so that is actually something that you both can talk about because it is common ground and common ground is good for couples, not of course that one date is anything more than just a date so don't make plans of any kind on the night for a second date, there is always plenty of time to do that afterwards.

Most important of all is to make sure that you know how to get home, if you haven't driven to the date then make sure you know what public transport is available and aim to catch it so that you don't have to wait outside at night especially if you live in a major city.

Lastly have fun, that is why you agreed to go out in the first place and if at any time you feel uncomfortable then leave it is a free country you know and it is better to be called something nasty behind your back than to be in any form of danger.

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Speed Dating And Pubs Shouldn't Mix

2009-11-27T08:45:00.001Z

It is good to see that some Speed Dating companies care about their clients more than others, though in my opinion they only care about their clients cash, like the people at Speed Dating Events and I would like to thank them for their comment on my blog about Speed Dating which describes why I think that Speed dating is a terrible way to find a partner. The comment, if you want to read it, appeared on the www.easilyfriends.com website.

However in spite of their comment, I haven't change my mind and my point remains and that is because not all Speed Dating is either well organised or well thought out.

I still maintain that you are never going to find someone to develop a long term relationship with when you are hustled from one quick chat to the next, even in a nice venue with careful professional staff in attendance.

And just quickly on the subject of venues Speed Dating event companies tend to use smelly, dirty and outdated public houses to arrange their 'quicky' events! Am I the only person in the world who hates pubs because they are not nice places? Thank goodness no, because I read everyday of another town or village pub closing.

The best you can hope for from a Speed Dating event is to fill your Filofax with cards and numbers from people you know you won't call because you won't remember who they were and of course they won't ring for the same reason.

Really, the only thing you can expect to get out of a speed dating event is to get back into the swing of talking to people in a social situation, frankly I would choose the bus, or better still if you want an evening out go to the theatre or the ballet and in the interval find people to chat to.

As I have said before, if you talk to people even if they are in a relationship it is very likely that they will have friends like you who are looking for a relationship, but of course, first of all they are looking for a date and importantly so are you!

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What Happened to Speed dating?

2009-11-26T19:07:00.001Z

Of all the most unsavoury things to cross the Atlantic recently, I have to say that I think speed dating was one of the worst!

It is actually 'up there' with Adam Lambert and of course Jay Sean and indeed anyone whose name is anything to do with 'cents' no matter what division of a dollar they happen to be and of course anyone who wears that dreadful stuff 'bling.'

As far as I was concerned and frankly speed dating 'concerned' me; speed dating was insulting, petty and really rather pathetic.

Oh the concept sounded all rather fine as I am afraid mere 'concepts' always do, but finding a partner and beginning a relationship is nothing to do with several five minute chats in the early evening at a bar that is hired by the hour on slow days.

No dating and finding a partner is a slow process that takes patience, time and most of all dedication plus commitment.

Speed dating was all very well and good as a way of massaging the egos of people who think that they are busy. Sad people who spend a lot of time cutting down and neatly packaging the things they do in their, not very normal, lives so that at the end of the evening they have plenty of time to go home and think about how alone they are.

I am sorry but no one on the planet is too busy for a relationship or beginning to build one and if you can name anyone and then prove that they are; I will happily print the information here on my very precious and popular blog and give you the credit you both deserve for being very rare indeed.

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How Do You Make Your Relationship Work?

2009-11-25T19:11:00.001Z

It is true to say tat we are all looking for something different from a relationship and that is because we are all so very different that is the complex beauty of the human race.

But there are some things that we should look for in a relationship that are constant and common to all humans of both sexes and they are;

We should always respect our partner and never even consider violence towards one another. It is impossible to add that we should never lose our temper with our partner because it is in our nature. But if you can remember that you might be losing your temper with the wrong person - your partner who is just an innocent bystander. Always try to think before you let your anger out.

If you do this then you will be also doing something that I personally believe is a key to a happy relationship and that is always treat your partner in a way that you would like to be treated.

It goes, almost, without saying that you should chat to your partner, tell them what makes you happy, then what makes you sad and then of course what gets under your skin. You'll discover that you feel better and your partner will enjoy sharing and of course at a later date the opportunity to do the same to you, to chat and share.

One thing that I have found in the years that I have been around is that not only do relationship flourish when you are sharing they also bloom when you give your partner a little bit of privacy, some quiet time, to do what they want.

That may be a hobby, a walk with the dog or anything and you should always give your partner that space and freedom, yes it is true that we all need different things but there are only a very few humans who want to be completely isolated even if they say they do.

There is so much more to say on this subject and that happily is why I have a blog, but finally for today always remember that there are two people in a relationship and that they both need to be engaged in making the relationship work, if one isn't pulling his or her weight then he or she needs to be reminded that a relationship is a precious thing and like all precious things it isn't difficult to break them.

Kick Start A Relationship

2009-11-24T13:27:00.001Z

There is no need to be alone these days honestly. Believe it or not even today there are so many ways to find someone who could become your partner. One of the very best ways to find a special someone is to talk to people you see everyday.

Sadly our society has painted us into a corner because we are worried about 'strangers' and so we walk along the street with our heads down, sit on public transport avoiding eye contact with our fellow passengers and keep ourselves very much to ourselves and that I am afraid is a recipe for loneliness.

But that is daft because if we have a daily routine and that is probably 90% of us we encounter people everyday, nice people who are probably lonely as well and as painted into their corners as we are.

So surely it is really silly to sit at home alone when in your street let alone your town there are probably dozens of people doing the self same thing.

Tomorrow when you are walking down the street or you are on the bus or you are wherever your daily routine takes you and you see someone you have seen before smile at them, you'll probably get a smile back.

Then the next day when you see them again do the same, after a week the person you are smiling at will probably be looking out for you so that they can smile back at you when you smile at them and that is because we humans are social animals and we enjoy contact with other members of or species.

The next step is to say hello, and soon after that maybe you will be stopping for a chat, this sort of sociable behaviour can be directed to both members of the opposite sex and to members of your own sex too and that is because you are just being socialble.

With men it is more likely to start chatting if they are at a football game or in a bar but the same logic of just chatting applies.

By chatting to members of the opposite sex you are increasing your chances of striking up a friendship or relationship and by talking to a members of the same sex you are simply widening your group of contacts.

Isn't it true that almost all of us know someone who is on their own and it is likely that you will be introduced to them at some time down the line or be introducing someone to a friend of the person you now know who is alone.

The simple truth is that unless you talk to people and interact with them you will become more and more isolated and when you feel isolated and alone you don't feel like talking to anyone and so you are caught in a cycle of unhappiness.

Don't you agree that the price of getting rid of your unhappiness is worth a smile and then a hello? I do, but then I do talk to a lot of people when I am out.

After the first hello you can chat about anything, from the weather to the price of Sugar it doesn't matter, the person you smiled at will know that you aren't a threat and vice versa and at some stage they will feel comfortable enough to suggest a coffee or something.

So smile at someone tomorrow just for me! Because there is no reason for any of us to be alone and victims of the society we live in today and stay painted into a corner.

Getting A Second Date

2009-11-23T10:49:00.001Z

A first date after a while can be 'interesting' for all of the wrong reasons and not just because you are out of practice. When you get home you start to wonder whether you both had fun and of course whether either of you want to repeat the fun and have a second date.

So what should you do next? Well if you are a woman you are supposed to ruled by a convention that suggests that you wait to see if 'he' calls and if you are a man you are supposed to call if you had fun and want to see your new friend again.

That does seem to leave a lot to chance doesn't it? So what you do next assuming that you want to see the other party again should be ruled by you not convention. Though of course what you do next should be governed by how well the date went.

If you have a nice time then there is no reason not to have another date is there? If on the other hand things didn't go so well of course you should continue looking for what you want.

If you have a great time then call the other person and let them know and suggest another date, you will soon discover if they feel the same way about the date and are prepared to have another.

When you call, and this applies to both men and women be chatty, and make sure you say that you had a good time as quickly as possible, oddly enough few people seem to know that compliments work as well on men as women.

And tell them what you are doing now, and if you really liked him or her tell them that you are getting ready for bed and thinking of 'them' that works rather nicely because it is an innocent comment but just as a very slight edge.

Keep the conversation short though because you don't want to run out of things to talk about on the second date, on the third of course you can mention the telephone conversation after the first date which is nice because it shows that you are developing some personal history that only you two share and that is the best way to start a dating regularly and building something that eventually will come to be a relationship and all from a little telephone call.

Here at www.easilyfriends.com we try to make finding a partner as easy as possible and of course ALL of our services are FREE and always will be free but pleased do take care when dating someone new for the first time.

Meet in them in a public place and leave them in a public place. Make sure that you tell someone where you are going and when you expect to return and if you are going to be late then call them and let them know.

Dating is fun and dating safely means that you will have fun safely.

Three Words For Today

2009-11-22T16:07:00.002Z

Here are three words to think about today when you are looking for Mr., Ms. or Mrs. right.

JUST BE PATIENT!

If you use those three rather simple words then you will find happiness. You know a friend of mine spent nearly 20 years looking for the right partner, in the end he found her but it took a while and of course he was patient.

Building A Relationship

2009-11-20T08:32:00.001Z

It is easy to wrong almost before begin when you are building a relationship and that is usually because of 'personalities.'

Sometimes it is because people carry emotional 'baggage' from one relationship to another and that baggage just gets heavier and heavier and drags you down, other times it is because you decide that this time 'you' are going be a different person and that is something we humans can't do just like leopards we are unable to change our spots.

Other times we begin a relationship with the intention to change our partner, to my way of thinking if you want to change some of the characteristics or behaviour of your partner you may as well cut out the agony that you will both suffer and leave them well alone now.

But if you can leave the baggage behind, not be so arrogant to believe that you can 'change' someone then you have a real chance of building a relationship.

By far and away the best way to build a relationship is to take things at a pace that you are both happy with, always remember that a relationship contains two people and although you may want to move in together tomorrow your partner may have reservations and want time to adjust to his or her new situation.

Gardeners and builders know about getting the foundations right, if you want to grow wonderful flowers you prepare your soil well and if you want to build a house that will last for centuries you get the footing right and the same is true of building a relationship. The happier, more trusting and comfortable both of you are with each other the more solid the foundation for your future.

There are a lot of things to sort out before you move in together of course but you both need to sit down and work out what it is you want and then go for it.

Always remember that if you have a happy relationship you are one of the lucky few, not every couple can without thinking or referring to each other say that they are happy. But it you work at it you will always be building upon the firm foundations that you created originally and that means that when asked if you are happy together you will both say yes without even having to pause for a moment and that is wonderful.

Beginning A Relationship

2009-11-20T07:26:00.001Z

Have you ever wondered at what point a friendship becomes a relationship? Yes there is sex of course but sex is not exclusive to relationships these days and so it has to be something else doesn't it?

So when do we go from being friends to being partners? It is something that I have thought of a lot and I think I have some suggestions to the answer but because I know that we are all human and therefore we are all so very different I wouldn't begin to boast that I have 'the' answer!

Personally I think that the first in a long list of answers to the question "when is it that a relationship begins between two people?" Is that time when you go from being always excited by the person you are dating, when things start to feel comfortable.

It is when things start to feel comfortable that you both can relax and begin to enjoy each other on another level and that level is a relationship.

This is the stage in your relationship when you truly understand your partner and can enjoy the feeling that they understand you and that in turn will make you both relax and the more relaxed you are with someone the more open you are and therefore the more you will trust that person on all levels.

It is at this point that you will discover that you are spending more and more of your spare time together doing things that you both enjoy and surely that is a relationship isn't it?

It is my hope that you find someone to share your life with and that is why I work with those nice people at www.easilyfriends.com they really help and best of all their service is totally free, even the advice that I give confidentially one to one and that has helped so many people in so many ways I am pleased to say.

Finding A Partner In 6 Easy Steps

2009-11-19T09:50:00.001Z

Everyone who is on their own deserves to find a special friend or partner and most importantly find happiness!

Sadly today it is increasingly difficult to find that special someone who might be a good friend or, you never know, may end up as your partner for life.

I have put together 6 steps that will help you to find someone special to share your life with. The 6 steps aren't simple but they are easy to follow and they will help you find someone special but be warned the 6 steps mean that you need to really take a good look at yourself before you start to take a good look for a partner if you do then you will find the person who is right for you and they will delight in your company and that you have to agree is a great beginning.

The First Step

Probably the most important step in finding a special someone is the first one and that step is to really get to know yourself properly!

Yes it is a little obvious! But how on earth can you hope for someone else to get to know you when you have no idea who you are and the type of person you are looking to be friends with or more? So you need to know where you are in your life and what sort of person and relationship you are looking for.

Step Two

It is very important to sit down and think about the sort of relationship you want and the type of person you are looking for. Are at a stage in your life when you are looking for just friends, or do you want a long term relationship and marriage.

The sort of person who is just friends is very different to one who wants to settle down, get married etc., and of course it is important to know what you want because then you can look in the right place and save any heartache that might come with finding the wrong partner for you at the moment.

Step Three

You have to think about the past and ask yourself if you have ever tried to find happiness with the partner or partners you have had in the past or have you just used your former partners as objects of criticism, because it is likely that what you have at the moment maybe wonderful but you can't see it through your attitude!

If this is the case maybe you should give the person you are with a second chance and try to see the good in your partner and do what you can to make life a better happier place and your one time lover loved again.

Even if this doesn't work, there may come a time in the future where the love you find becomes old and stale, even routine, and that is when you might try to improve your relationship by being more loving, kinder and caring, these gifts are usually reciprocated when they are given and life will just get better and better for you and your partner.

Step Four

If you want to see how life can be when you are in a loving relationship look at people who you know who have been together for a long while, they have to be doing something right and it might be that you can spot what they are doing and use it to your advantage.

Step Five

The only way to ensure that the partner that you choose today or tomorrow will be your partner in a long term relationship is to think of your relationship as something that is going to last.

But like all things that last a long time it is going to need TLC and lots of care and attention and if you are prepared to continue to invest in this relationship it will pay dividens in the long term.

When you do this you will find that together you talk about your life together with your partner because you are both investing in the relationship and that means that you will both consider each other's points of view and best of all well being.

The Last Step

It is so very important to ensure that the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with is right for you, never think that you can change or alter the things that you don't like about your partner you can't and most importantly you shouldn't.

Just get to know the person you are friendly with so that dating, living together and spending the rest of your life together feels natural and that way you will both not only be happy but you will be making each other happy.

Horoscope Signs A New Feature

2009-11-19T08:21:00.001Z

Those nice people at www.easilyfriends.com have just added what I think is a lovely feature - the ability to search for a friend, partner and more by using your Zodiac Sign.

This is a great way to discover that special friend who you can have fun with or... well who knows because you can use the compatibility of your Horoscope Sign to match with theirs.

As always when you are searching for a partner of friend you will be safer using www.easilyfriends.com than if you were to use most dating sites and that is because we carefully monitor applications to join the site which happily reduces access to the site for spammers and scammers and most importantly because we are free and will never charge you for any service ever we care about successfully finding you friends and possibly partners and we are not just after you money like pay sites.

Just A Quick Note!

2009-11-19T08:10:00.001Z

Hello everyone, I thought I would just drop you all a line and first thank you for the number of nice things that you have said about my blog, and when it is still in its infancy too! You are so kind.

If you think that it is likely that you might be alone this Christmas now is the time to do something about it and probably the best way is to do another search of the www.easilyfriends.com database, but there are other ways.

One really great way to attract the attention of someone you like on a bus, train or in public is to smile at them, it breaks the ice and before you know where you are you could be chatting and getting to know the person who only a few minutes ago you were just smiling at.

So I want you to do something for me today and for the next few weeks, check the www.easilyfriends.com database of course, but also smile at more people and I am sure that together we can do something which will save you from being alone this Christmas.

This Is Fun!

2009-11-14T09:20:00.003Z

Hello again! Have you noticed I have become quite addicted to blogging, I do hope that it lasts because it is really great to talk.

One thing that I didn't expect was that just writing a few tips about dating here has meant that more people are coming to my lovely free dating website www.easilyfriends.com.

You can call me old fashioned if you want to, but you know, for me it is such a pleasure to help people find each other and make friends and when they find love it is just wonderful.

If you haven't been to www.easilyfriends.com do drop by sometime. It is one of the very few websites that can honestly and truthfully boast that it is free and always well be free.

The only pre-requisite we have here is that you must sincerely want to find friends and of course love if you can.

Still Getting Used To The Fun Of Blogging

2009-11-14T08:47:00.002Z

Hello my dear friends I am still getting used to the idea of blogging and so far I have to say I love it. I do wish that I had a few more comments by people assure me that they will come in due course and so I have to be patient.

People have asked me to put a picture up here and so I am sorting through them at the moment as you can imagine I want to look my very best for you all. Actually that is a very important point when you use www.easilyfriends.com my always free dating website do please put at least one picture of your good self on the page, that way you will, I promise, get so many more people contacting you and do remember that you will never ever be charged for anything at www.easilyfriends.com.

In the meantime I would like to thank everyone who has written to me at www.easilyfriends.com my nice little free dating site for all of the kind words that they have written about my first few stumbling steps in the blogsphere.

Have a lovely weekend,

Abigail.

Don't Want To Be Alone For The Holidays?

2009-11-14T07:22:00.002Z

Every year too many people are alone for the holidays and that is heartbreaking as far as I am concerned and that doesn’t make me a silly old softie, it makes me determined to ensure that it doesn’t happen to anyone if I can help it and that is because I have been there, long before I found my happiness I was alone for the holidays a lot and when I found my happiness I decided that I was going to try my hardest to make sure that others are not alone.

The best way I can suggest not to be alone on the holidays is to use one of our excellent free services here at www.easilyfriends.com and the one I am thinking of is the Ice Breakers™ as we call it. Ice Breakers™ make writing messages even easier and that is because there are lots of little introductory sentences to get you started chatting to a new friend.

Using Ice Breakers™ is also quick and easy and means that if you want to send a message to a few of our friends here who don’t forget are as shy as you are then you can quickly, simply and easily that is what www.easilyfriends.com is all about finding friends, companions and most of all happiness quickly, simply and easily so if you are looking for a friend to share the holidays with then do start with a few Ice Breakers™ messages now.

Why After A Couple Of Dates Do Things Go Wrong?

2009-11-14T07:18:00.005Z

I have heard from a lot of my friends here at www.easilyfriends.com recently saying that they have started dating and then after a couple of nice dates things have started to go wrong and could I help them find out what it was that caused their new friend to not want to continue.

Well after a few questions I found out that the people concerned men and women I have to say, were being a little over eager, it is a common cause of break ups early on in new relationships and is usually caused by one or both of the parties being so happy that they have found someone to share their time with that they just get a little carried away.

My advice, and of course, it works, is to do two things, the first is talk to each other, and not only about the possibility that you might be so happy that you have a new friend that you might put them off a little and you definitely don't want that so if the other person could just say if they were feeling a little threatened then that would help both of them, but also about everything.

And the second thing to do is maybe to implement a system that allows you both to get to know each other at a pace that is good for your both, this might be to restrict dates to certain days of the week and to limit contact initially so that you can allow your normal life to absorb your new friend and potential partner.

The best thing you can do with a new friend is to talk and remember that a conversation is something that is done by two people, who talk and listen to each other so don't get carried away and just talk about you and your problems listen and also talk about normal things, your things you like doing, food you enjoy, sports you like to watch and you will find that you get to know the person you are seeing much faster and much better.

And in the long run that will help you both because the best relationships are based on sharing everything.

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